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 #1594096


Embryo_spit
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 An unforgiveable mistake...

I’ve been so depressed lately since Jux has been missing that I’ve kind of been zoning out... Not really awake, yet still functioning...

I went to do some laundry last night, after having 4 days off of work i figured might as well on my last night off..i turned everything that was inside out, back to the way it should be, then went back to whatever iw as doing.


When I came down to put my clothes in the dryer...I saw him..

My baby Juxtapoz, on top of all my clothes in the washer... I started screaming and crying then fell to my knees in sheer horror

my mom came running down the stairs and took him out of the washer and i continued my hysteria. full blown panic attack and everything but my mom assured me he was still alive... but barely....


He’s missing alot of scales.. almost like his skin is gone and all that’s showing is muscle... he’s dehydrated, limp, and i think his back is broken.. he can sort of wobble the first 2.3rds of his bottom, but everything from there down he just drags.....



I have him in a small rubbermaid bin with heat and we put mineral oil on the dry patches of skin thats hanging off, and where the skin is gone, neosporing was applied...



At this point I don’t know if I should let him try to ride it out but it looks like his spine is broken.... If he has a chance then damnit let him try, but if I’m just draging out the suffering, I mean... God I hate myself so much for it... I thought somebody stole him, accused all whom I love of taking him, when in the end it was me that caused him to escape by not securing his lid good enough I guess, me that hurt him this bad, and i just don’t.. i’m so lost... I was up til 5 this morning just crying and watching over him...

I guess depending on how he’s doing tomorrow morning I’ll have to decide if I should say goodbye.. or watch him tough it out.....



I was talking to him today telling him how much I love him and how sorry I am and he tried oso hard to turn around and look at me and he did so and I just.. I fel like such a horrible person.. I didnt sleep and I had exams today and called in sick to work. My boss said "Well it’s just a snake" Yeah well try running over your own dog and tell me how you feel.


I just don’t feel like I deserve to own snakes after what I did to Juxtapoz. I cannot describe enough how immesely horrible I feel.


He’s not drinking any water and I dont dare try to feed him even though its been 3 weeks. he’s just trying to keep his head up, but his body kind of S shaped....


I wish I just knew what to do or say or ... I don’t think I’ve ever wished harder for time to turn back so I could fix what happened...



If any of you have any idea what i can do to help him feel better or anything, god anything please, please let me know...



01/25/08  05:15pm

 #1594266


Alligater
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  Message To: Embryo_spit   In reference to Message Id: 1594096


 An unforgiveable mistake...

sounds to me you did all you can ,now wait,keep the tomp up,freash water and wait.3 weeks is no problem with out no food,I lost my tangerine hondutan for 2 months,no food or water and one day I had a drain line break on my tub and their she was.All you can do now is pray and let nature take its course.I do hope it lives ,but if its back is broken,you’ll know in a week or 2.good luck



01/25/08  07:25pm

 #1594390


Candy_Corn
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  Message To: Embryo_spit   In reference to Message Id: 1594096


 An unforgiveable mistake...

Awwww! I’m so sorry :( I wish you and Jux the best of luck. I know you feel terrible, but you didn’t mean it.



01/25/08  08:31pm

 #1594401


The_sandboa
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  Message To: Candy_Corn   In reference to Message Id: 1594390


 An unforgiveable mistake...

poor thing i hope he gets better you cant blam your self you didnt know he was there snakes are sly little critters im sorry and wish the both of you the best of luck



01/25/08  08:39pm

 #1596274


Embryo_spit
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  Message To: The_sandboa   In reference to Message Id: 1594401


 An unforgiveable mistake...

I took Juxy to the vet shortly after posting this.


They took him in his rubbermaid bin to the examining room.

Came back 5 minutes later, and told me that he had already passed away.

....I miss him ever so terribly bad....


The ground is frozen due to snow, so he has to remain in my freezer in a box until the ground thaws...


...I’m so sorry, Juxy...



01/27/08  05:36am

 #1596296


Alligater
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  Message To: Embryo_spit   In reference to Message Id: 1596274


 An unforgiveable mistake...

sorry to hear about it,if you didn’t live so far away,I could help you with a new hatchling this year,in replacing yours.



01/27/08  07:25am

 #1596353


Candy_Corn
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  Message To: Embryo_spit   In reference to Message Id: 1596274


 An unforgiveable mistake...

:( Hang in there, ES. I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my normal corn 3 weeks ago, and it’s a terrible feeling.



01/27/08  08:56am

 #1597040


Halebop
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  Message To: Candy_Corn   In reference to Message Id: 1596353


 An unforgiveable mistake...

Oh, I’m sorry. Don’t beat yourself up about it though. You didn’t mean to harm him



01/27/08  05:50pm

 #1599574


OwlsHaveEyes
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  Message To: Halebop   In reference to Message Id: 1597040


 An unforgiveable mistake...

That is truly sad...I am so sorry to hear...sympathies



01/29/08  01:19am

 #1599597


Embryo_spit
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  Message To: OwlsHaveEyes   In reference to Message Id: 1599574


 An unforgiveable mistake...

I went and talked to teh fellar I bought juxy from today to see if he could contact the breeder where he got him from, in hopes of maybe finding a borhter, sister, of jux, anything, there’s no way he could be just one of him, but apparently he was the only one they ever had....


Juxy is still in a box in my freezer until the ground thaws out... Alot of people have been telling me how I should taxidermy him, just in case he is "new" to the snake world...but I don’t think I could bring myself to do it, not to mention the state he was in when he passed.



I thank you guys for your support... I mean I feel like I’ve lost one of my children, I feel like a horrible mom!!!!!


But I do appreciate all yer guy’s support, it means alot, because we all know, a snake isn’t just a snake afterall.



01/29/08  03:05am

 #1614878


ScyllaCharybdis
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  Message To: Alligater   In reference to Message Id: 1594266


 An unforgiveable mistake...

To Embryo_spit...

I’m not one to normally post this type of message but...I am truly sorry to hear about your snake’s death! He obviously meant a lot to you as all of our animals do!!! We all know you didn’t harm him intentionally and we all know you will be sure to have your next snake in a secure enclosure.

Rest in Peace Juxy!

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To Alligater...

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I do hope it lives ,but if its back is broken,you’ll know in a week or 2.

I obviously haven’t been on the Corn, King or Milk snake forums in several months...but when I saw this...I thought...

If the snake’s scales and skin is that damaged and it’s back is broken...Why wait 2 week to "see" or "find out". If it’s in that bad of shape...it’s majorly suffering and needed to be put down humanely.

Not one person said to take it to the Vet (which ES was obviously smart enough to do) and have it properly given emergency care.

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Alot of people have been telling me how I should taxidermy him...

ES...I know you’re going through a lot right now...but...

That’s just creepy!



02/08/08  03:17am

 #1615371


Snakebuz
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  Message To: ScyllaCharybdis   In reference to Message Id: 1614878


 An unforgiveable mistake...

What type of snake was JUX? I probably have whatever he was. If you are willing to pay freight charges, I’ll send you one free. It won’t be him or a sibling, but it might help. As our last president was won’t to say...;"I feel your pain".



02/08/08  04:14pm

 #1616357


Snakebuz
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  Message To: Embryo_spit   In reference to Message Id: 1599597


 An unforgiveable mistake...

Embryo, the post above is for you.... I just hit the first reply button I saw. I didn’t realize it automatically addressed it to someone else, LOL. What was JUXY?



02/09/08  11:35am

 #1616373


Candy_Corn
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  Message To: Snakebuz   In reference to Message Id: 1616357


 An unforgiveable mistake...

Hi, Snakebuz. ES isn’t on all the time so I provided a link so you can see Jux. He was really cool looking.

Link

There was a debate on what he actually was.



02/09/08  12:00pm

 #2039092


ELbee
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  Message To: Candy_Corn   In reference to Message Id: 1616373


 An unforgiveable mistake...

First of all, I am so very sorry for your loss. Secondly, you must forgive youself. I know it is hard, trust me. I had an episode with a sick frog a while back and I took him to the vet, did everything i could, but he had an extreme reaction to the meds I was supposed to soak him in and he died in seconds. I was just sick with myself for weeks. You meant no harm. There was nothing that you did that was intentional at all. Also, you stood by him and took care of him in the end, and I am sure he knew you loved him. It will take time, but really you are not on the hook for anything. Prayers with you in this time. :)



07/14/09  11:23am


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